NYPD charity, NY Assembly speaker pick up funeral tab for mom, disabled son found in squalid NYC apartment
The tragic death of a mother and her disabled son in a Bronx apartment has left a community in mourning. Lisa Cotton, 38, and her 8-year-old son Nazir Milien were found dead in their squalid apartment on April 18, leaving behind a 4-year-old daughter, Promise, who survived for two weeks by eating chocolate.
A moving memorial service was held on Sunday to remember the lives of Lisa and Nazir. The NYPD charity organization, “NYPD With Arms Wide Open,” led by veteran cop Merrit Riley, and State Assembly Speaker Carl Heastie generously covered the costs of the funeral service and food for the event.
Lisa Cotton was remembered as a loving mother who struggled to care for her disabled son, who required a wheelchair and a feeding tube. Her sister, Tawana Smith-Tention, delivered a heartfelt eulogy, emphasizing that Lisa did her best to care for her children despite the challenges she faced.
More than 100 mourners attended the wake at the Wake-Eden Community Baptist Church, where family and friends gathered to pay their respects. Nevaeh, Lisa’s 17-year-old daughter, expressed her love for her mother and siblings, highlighting the deep bond they shared.
Born in St. Kitts, Lisa moved to the United States with her family and eventually settled in New York City. Her son Nazir, who was born in 2017, was the light of her life, according to her family members.
Merrit Riley, who founded the nonprofit organization to help police families with special needs children, was deeply moved by Lisa and Nazir’s story. He offered support to the grieving family, highlighting the importance of community assistance during times of tragedy.
State Assembly Speaker Carl Heastie’s office covered the funeral and cremation costs for Lisa and Nazir, showing solidarity with the family in their time of need. Pastor Frank Williams provided the church space and musicians for the service free of charge, demonstrating the community’s support.
The circumstances surrounding Lisa and Nazir’s deaths have raised questions about the city’s Administration for Children’s Services, as case workers reportedly visited the apartment shortly before the tragic discovery. Family and friends are seeking answers and closure in the wake of this devastating loss.
As the community continues to grieve, the memory of Lisa and Nazir lives on in the hearts of those who knew and loved them. Their story serves as a reminder of the importance of support and compassion for families facing challenges, especially those caring for children with disabilities.
