The dads we should honor — like ‘Calvin Duper’ Munerlyn — but sadly . . . don’t

America’s Obsession with Flawed Heroes: Remembering Calvin Munerlyn

As a society, we often measure the health of a nation by the individuals it chooses to celebrate. Unfortunately, America has a chronic illness when it comes to idolizing men who serve temporary political purposes rather than honoring those who consistently sacrifice for others.

In the tumultuous year of 2020, amidst the chaos surrounding George Floyd’s tragic death, another heartbreaking incident occurred that went largely unnoticed. Calvin “Duper” Munerlyn, a 43-year-old husband and father of eight, was senselessly murdered while working as a security guard at a Family Dollar store in Flint, Michigan.

Munerlyn’s tragic death stemmed from a simple request to enforce mask-wearing regulations during the height of the pandemic. An altercation with a customer led to his untimely demise at the hands of the customer’s husband and son.

In November 2022, justice was served as all three perpetrators were convicted of first-degree premeditated murder and sentenced to life without parole. However, the pain of losing Munerlyn still lingers for his family and community five years later.

Described as a legend in his community, Munerlyn was a loving father, devoted husband, and exemplary role model. His wife, Latryna Sims, continues to mourn his loss, expressing the void left in her life since his passing. Munerlyn’s mother, Bernadett, fondly remembers her son as a beautiful father who brought joy and warmth to those around him.

Munerlyn’s impact extended beyond his family as he was recognized as the “Parent of the Year” at his children’s school shortly before his death. His selflessness and dedication to his community earned him the admiration and respect of many.

Despite his positive influence, there are no grand memorials or statues in honor of Calvin Munerlyn. His legacy lives on in the hearts and minds of those who knew him personally, a stark reminder of our society’s failure to cherish the lives of honorable men.

In a culture that often downplays the importance of fatherhood and masculinity, Munerlyn’s story serves as a poignant reminder of the invaluable role fathers play in shaping the lives of their families. His unwavering love and commitment to his loved ones transcended material wealth, highlighting the true essence of fatherhood.

As we approach Father’s Day, let us take a moment to remember and honor Calvin “Duper” Munerlyn, a man who embodied the virtues of fatherhood and selflessness. His legacy serves as a beacon of light in a society plagued by superficial hero worship and misplaced priorities.

Rest in peace, Calvin “Duper” Munerlyn, your memory will forever be cherished by those whose lives you touched.